Friday, June 30, 2006

Whirlwind

We arrived safely back in Seattle on Wednesday morning. We had lunch with some friends, took a nap, had dinner with more friends and then tried to sleep a regular night Wednesday night. We couldn't. Not. A. Wink. So Thursday morning found us very tired. We also bought our car back from our good friend who'd been keeping it for us and then proceeded to drive down to Portland. The drive was rough, considering that we were both exhausted - but we got here, and Mike's parents were so happy to see us!

We spent last night (when we got much better sleep!) at a very cute hotel. The hotel is in a former school (operational from 1915-1975), so each classroom has been divided in two to make hotel rooms.

Here are a few pictures I took this morning:(the last photo is of the cloakroom/closet in our room)

Now we are off to have very delicious pancakes! Yay!

Tuesday, June 27, 2006

Japan, in a nutshell

Things I’ll miss about Japan:

1. The amazing and super-fresh sushi (duh)
2. The convenience of having two grocery stores, a farmer’s market, a post office, and a bank all within a five minute walk.
3. Doho Park (although it’s pretty similar to Green Lake park, so I’ll manage).
4. The awesome public transportation—and the beast.
5. The super-cute kids The other day I stopped at a crosswalk to let a nursery school class cross, and they all galloped across holding hands and shouting “arrigato.”
6. The beautiful flowers – on the cherry trees, in the gardens, and in the parks.
7. The luxury of having time that was all my own. Unsurprisingly, life had a very nice pace here.
8. Tokyo
9. The great produce—and the amazing variety of super-cheap mushrooms.
10. The fact that there’s a tool, cloth, box, sponge, etc. designed for every purpose, from picking things up off the railroad tracks, to tying up various goods like a hobo, to giving gifts and eating your bento lunch, to cleaning the space between the burners on your stove.


Things I won’t miss about Japan:

1. Not really being able to understand anything unfamiliar. I’m at the point now where I can do rote tasks with ease, but even the slightest change or hitch really confuses me, and I’m apt to (want to) give up.
2. My social life here. I have a few great friends, but they all have lives that are much busier than mine. Sometimes, it’s just downright lonely. I’d see women my age out on the street, but I just know that the odds are certainly stacked against us ever becoming friends.
3. The cold winter in the poorly insulated house. Also, the very sticky and buggy summer.
4. Not having an oven. This might be the longest I’ve gone without baking anything since I started cooking seriously in high school.
5. The very small fridge and the very small washing machine – this meant that I had to shop and do laundry nearly every day. Which was okay, since I really wasn't doing anything else, but still . . . . .
6. Using only salt, pepper, Mrs. Dash, and chili pepper as spices, and no reasonably priced fresh herbs. All our food started to taste the same.
7. The puffy white bread the size of pillow, conveniently sold in packs of three(!) slices at the grocery store. What’s a girl gotta do to get a loaf of whole wheat bread?
8. Not having a decent gym or any exercise classes. I ran outside when the weather allowed, and did yoga DVDs when it didn’t. But that was it.
9. Being out of the country for holidays, weddings, birthdays, and other special events.
10. Not having to go down a steep and narrow staircase in order to use the facilities in the middle of the night.

Final Guest Round-up

So the guests have all left (or moved on to other cities within Japan), and we leave for the airport shortly.

Here are a few last Japan pics from Monday, when Mike and I went to Asakusa and then met up with Karen for dinner.

An Ode to Choco Cro

I've ridden the Tsukuba Express for the last time. I've also had my last choco cro.

In honor of the latter event, I'll share with you a poem jointly written by me, MHS, Miso, and Peso. Although we wrote this together in March, I just found it again now as I was clearing off my desk.

First, some pics to set the mood . . . .
An Ode to Choco Cro

O Choco Cro, how sweet and melty is your chocolate center,
You are best fresh, still warm from the oven
Yet, even cooled, you are a tasty treat.

O Choco Cro, how buttery and flaky is your pastry exterior,
Clad in a cone-shaped orange wrapper
A treat beyond the electronic dictionaries of Akihabara.

O Choco Cro, 20 minutes not lost, but gained.

Sunday, June 25, 2006

Big Events

1. Mike’s Happio. Mike gave a little presentation, a happio, at his university on Friday. For being at 4:45 on a nice Friday afternoon in the summer and in English, the talk was surprisingly well-attended. Mike spoke for about 40 minutes, and then took questions for about 25 minutes. The talk highlighted his research thus far and showed some really good information that he’d discovered - all making a convincing case for his approach. His slides were really nice and the talk was very clear. He definitely held everyone’s interest. Good job! After the talk, we went out for celebratory dinner. Here's a shot of the man in action (sorry for the quality of the picture - I kind of took it on the sly): 2. Farewell lunch with Daisuke, Chie, and Nagu. Saturday we went into Tokyo for a farewell lunch with our friends. Even though it isn’t really farewell, since they are coming to the States for a visit in late August and Mike will be able to keep seeing them here, it still felt very sad. I also think that, over the long term we’ll remain great friends with them and be able to keep seeing them – but goodbyes are always sad! We had a super-yummy Japanese lunch and then we went out for some super-yummier dessert afterwards. Nagu was, of course, as cute as ever.

Saturday, June 24, 2006

Ch-ch-changes

So I am headed back to Seattle soon; Mike will follow in a few months. We’ll be living with our good friend Lisa, so in addition to saving money, we’re hoping to have a really good time!

I’m excited to be going back—but that’s a subject for another post. Or six.

First, I need to say something that’s been hanging over my head for a while. This is different from most of the posts I’ve written, because it’s more personal than most of what we post here. And maybe this isn’t is a big a deal as I am making it seem; but it feels pretty big to me, so that’s all I’ve got to go on. To some of you—the amazing ones who’ve listened to me cry, helped me work through things, given me the courage to move forward, proof-read my applications, and will, no doubt, be there in the days to come—this is not new. But for others, this is new news, or at least new news in this more settled form.

(With all those disclaimers out of the way . . . )

When we go back to Seattle, I won’t be going back to the graduate program. I love the subject, but I just don’t love the process of writing a dissertation. While I know everyone feels that way (What was I expecting? A pony?), I was feeling it worst than most, I think. But hiding it better, perhaps. I won’t detail how miserable I was because that’s just lame and pathetic. I’ll just sum it by saying it wasn’t that I thought I’d have regrets if a potato chip truck whipped around the corner and flattened me, it was that I kept wishing that it would.

Do I have a new plan? Heck, yes! I’ll be on campus at the College of Education, training to be a high school social studies teacher. I’m happy about this—happy to be back in the classroom, happy to be working with kids, and happy to be training in a sector where the jobs are relatively more abundant. If I hadn’t gone to grad school, I would have worked a few years and then become a high school government teacher, so this is hardly a new career direction for me.

All the same, it’s bittersweet. I think I’ll be much happier in the long-term, but I’d be lying if I told you that I felt totally happy right now. Truth be told, I feel like a total failure and a flunkie. Like someone who couldn’t hack it, because, well, maybe I couldn’t. Or maybe I chose not to. But I just can’t quite grasp the difference quite yet. I want to be in a place where I can say something like, “I was enrolled in a Ph.D. program, but it just wasn’t where I needed to be (or my calling?), so I left and became a teacher.” But right now that rolls off my tongue about as easily as dry cotton. I think, once I’m more settled in this career direction, explaining the switch will get easier.

I’m tired, though, of holding my breath when I tell people I’m doing this, searching for that flicker of judgment that a hyper-sensitive me is ever-ready to perceive. I’ve noticed that I get one of two responses. Response 1: “Teaching is great, it’s a very rewarding a career, you really make a difference, you have summers off, you have your kids’ vacation schedule, etc.” Often, this person will follow up by noting the teachers that are in her/his family. That’s nice. That makes me feel good. Response 2: “You’re doing what, considering what you could have done . . . ? With kids these days the way they are? And all the school shootings? Nobody respects teachers. You know, most teachers don’t even make it five years in the job?” Okay, see, this makes me feel less good. This is not a helpful response. You know, if you can’t say something nice . . . .

So this is where I am, and why I’m doing what I’m doing. You heard it here first (maybe).

Friday, June 23, 2006

Standings after Week 2 of the Fish for Breakfast World Cup Challenge

1st place - Team KL, affiliated with Finding Resonance.
2nd place - Team Gluck, no blog affiliation.
3rd place - Team Tsukuba Divers, by MHS, affiliated with Fish for Breakfast.
4rd place (tie) - Team Okachimachi, by Katem, affiliated with Fish for Breakfast.
4rd place (tie) - Team Calicio and Cocomero, affiliated with Prosciutto and Peanutbutter.
6th place - Team Semi-Rapid, affiliated with Matt Rochkind's Fat Blog.
7th place - Team Competition for Breakfast, affiliated with Dogs that Blog (team owner lives in same house as chief blogger, Wally).
8th place - SE1 - by frequent Fish for Breakfast commentator MD

Also, for the record, the amount of kibbitzing on the Bulletin Board has improved somewhat, but remains insufficient.

Wednesday, June 21, 2006

The guests, part 2

My brother and his friend spent their first day in Tokyo at Asakusa and Ueno. Yesterday, I took them to Yoyogi Park, Harajuku, and Shibuya. Today, they’re spending their last day in Tokyo doing a bit of everything – the Edo Museum, the Imperial Palace, Ginza, and kabuki theater.

Here are some pictures from yesterday. This was actually the first time I’d ever been in this part of Yoyogi Park – you have to pay to enter the iris garden, and it never seemed worth it when the irises weren’t in bloom. But I’m glad that I finally got to do this! The garden was beautiful.It also had a few classic signs:Then we walked around Harajuku, where I saw this toy. Not sure that I would buy it for any budding geniuses I know, though. (Pay careful attention to the lower left corner of the label).Last, I leave you with the unspeakable humiliation of being a lapdog in Japan. As if being a lapdog wasn’t enough.

Monday, June 19, 2006

The guests, so far

The newlyweds arrived on Tuesday.On their first day, we poked around Akihabara, had soba at the place that SYL and I found, they went to Ueno park (while I went to go participate in a focus group about what Americans think about transportation in Japan), and then we all met Mike for Indian food for dinner.

On their second day, we went to see a great photography exhibit by Michael Kenna at the Tokyo Metropolitan Museum of Photography. Then, in the pouring rain, we headed over to Ginza. We spent some time at Itoya, an amazing 7-level stationery store, and then ate a very yummy Italian dinner.

The next morning our resident “Italian” arrived. Karen had a good, if long, flight. We jumped right into the Japanese experiences for her, whisking her from the bus station to a Japanese buffet lunch and then some shopping. We ate sushi for dinner, of course!

Saturday was a big day – we all headed in Tokyo—hoping the weather held—to see the Imperial Palace and the East Garden. The garden was beautiful – the irises were finally bloom and it was so pretty! Then, we headed back to Tsukuba in time for The Official Antti and Kate Sayonara Party. The party was great, and after the party we hit the karaoke box. We sang our hearts out for two hours (others stayed on for extra time, too!).Sunday we again went to Tokyo, this time to Harajuku, in hopes of catching sight of some of freaks. Unfortunately, since it was POURING rain, the freaks weren’t out in great numbers. Apparently being a freak is a bit of a fair weather enterprise. However, we still had fun shopping for various whatnot at Daiso and then buying neat socks on Takeshita Street.

Today, that group left for Kyoto. In a few hours, my brother and his friend arrive. I’m hoping to avoid doing the exact same things with them – although I will be going into Tokyo with them some of the time.

Thursday, June 15, 2006

Standings after Week 1 of the Fish for Breakfast World Cup Challenge

1st place - Team KL, affiliated with Finding Resonance.
2nd place - Team Okachimachi, by Katem, affiliated with Fish for Breakfast.
3rd place (tie) - Team Calicio and Cocomero, affiliated with Prosciutto and Peanutbutter.
3rd place (tie) - Team Tsukuba Divers, by MHS, affiliated with Fish for Breakfast.
5th place - Team Semi-Rapid, affiliated with Matt Rochkind's Fat Blog.
6th place - Team Gluck, no blog affiliation.
7th place - Team Competition for Breakfast, affiliated with Dogs that Blog (team owner lives in same house as chief blogger, Wally).
8th place - SE1 - by frequent Fish for Breakfast commentator MD

Also, for the record, the amount of kibbitzing on the Bulletin Board is currently insufficient. No one has posted a new kibbitz since the beginning of June.

Tuesday, June 13, 2006

Tsukuba Onsen Ho-tehr-ru

Last weekend, we went away to an onsen. Well, we didn’t go far, just halfway up Mount Tsukuba, but it was very nice to have a change of scenery and pace. This was especially true since it was our last weekend alone together before all our guests arrive (see below) and then we leave for the States.

We saw a beautiful rainbow on the way up the mountain. We also had a great view of the rice paddies from the mountain.Onsens are usually associated with traditional Japanese inns, so we were treated to bean snacks in our rooms, yukata robes to wear down to the baths, and a nice dinner.It was good fun!

In a few hours my friend Sheila and her new husband arrive, and then, a few days later, my friend Karen arrives. And shortly after that come my brother and his friend. Theoretically my brother and his friend will be here while the other crew is off in Kyoto, but we aren’t yet sure about that. Anyway, it should be good fun!

This weekend, we’ve planned a little BBQ-karaoke party with some of our friends here. The party will be a going away party for me and for our Finish friend Antti, who is also leaving soon. I also hope to take Sheila and Justin and Karen to Omotesando on Sunday afternoon. Other than that, I have no special plans for the guests – there’s so much to do, I think that they should choose.

I promise updates of their visits!

Friday, June 09, 2006

“Miss Kate’s Last Day”

Wednesday was my last day teaching art.

We did a 2-part Father’s Day project. First, we made cards that looked like dress shirts. This wasn’t that easy, since measuring and cutting precisely were really important, otherwise the cards wouldn’t have things that looked like shirt collars on top. The older students helped the younger students measure and cut, and then all the students decorated their shirts and ties.Next, we made bookmarks with a sappy poem (scroll to the bottom of the page). In keeping with the poem’s theme, we used some Ed Emberely-inspired fingerprint art to decorate the bookmarks. When all the bookmarks were finished, I laminated them.Overall, teaching art was a really fun and rewarding experience. I really don’t have any interest in teaching elementary art for the long-term, though. I worry that I am not nurturing enough to be both nice and firm/structured with a large number of young kids for long stretches of the day. And I still have a lot of trouble with balancing the importance of following directions with allowing space for individual creativity with the art materials.

But, for a few hours a week, it was fun. This Wednesday, the kids were super-great. Last Wednesday, during the fruit and veggie printing lesson, there was a little trouble with sharing paint and materials and there were a few quarrels. This week, I stressed to the students that I really wanted our last time together to be fun and pleasant. So, every time something that happened that could possibly lead to an argument, the kids would remind each other “Miss Kate’s last day, Miss Kate’s last day . . .”

Teaching art also sort of re-defined how I felt about myself as an “artist.” I still wouldn’t say that I have any artistic talent, but I am at least more comfortable facilitating art projects and trying new things.

Wednesday, June 07, 2006

Yakult v. Orix

On Sunday we attended a Japanese baseball game, the Tokyo Yakult Swallows v. the Kobe Orix Buffaloes. This was the first Japanese game either of us had attended since 2002, when Kate came to visit me in Japan, and I had forgotten how much fun it is.

The fans sit in separate sections for the team they are rooting for, and they stand and sing songs together the whole time their team is batting (and when the other team is batting they sit quietly). I had never been to a Swallows game before, but their fans are really fun. When they score a run, they all get out these tiny umbrellas (we're talking thousands of tiny umbrellas), open them up, and sing a song with them. It is the BEST. We were just getting out our normal umbrellas to participate in the fun, and people seemed ok with that.




On an unrelated note, now that the Detroit Tigers are doing well, it seems like everyone wants to wear the Old English "D."