Friday, July 30, 2010

12 months

The birthday party post sort of replaces our requisite sign. Anyway, as you might have noticed, that sign gambit is getting more and more challenging. Talent these days!

Natalie is one year old. Wow!She's lovely, perfectly lovely. And of course, we love her very much.She's a big babbler. On a good day, we can get a pretty long stream of interactive lacka-lacka-lackas followed by some tukka-tukka-tukkas. She also has the sounds for "mama", "dada", and something that maybe sounds like kitty cat ("kee-kah" or the like). She's got the the "g" sound down, too. Also, raspberries.

I asked the doctor about her lack of actual words, and was told that attempts at communication and understanding are much more important. As Mike and I were digesting this, the doctor offered an example. She said, "Like when you say 'clap', does Natalie clap?" And right on cue, Natalie gave us some claps and a big smile. I was totally surprised! I'd never seen that trick, and I couldn't believe it. Later that night, as Mike, Natalie, and I were all snuggling in baby jail, I asked Mike if he thought it was really for real, or if Natalie's performance for the doctor had been a coincidence. In so doing, I used the word "clap" - and Natalie did it again! How adorable is that?

Interestingly, we've been trying to teach her to point to our nose or her nose is response to the question "Where is mommy's / baby's nose?" No dice. But the clapping thing - we'd made zero efforts at that. I didn't even know if she knew what clapping was.

Natalie will now also suck her thumb and wave on command. Soon, we'll be teaching her how to make lattes.

She and Mike also play a game where she'll point at something, and then Mike will kiss her finger. Natalie then, predictably, dissolves into laughter. And her laughter is the best, sweetest sound.Natalie loves to explore. She isn't walking yet, but she will always pull herself to standing if an object at the appropriate height presents itself. She'll cruise, too, but if what she wants is too far away, she'll drop back down and crawl. And she is a fast little crawler! And in San Diego, she learned to go up stairs.She's loving Pat the Bunny right now. We took that book to San Diego, and it was so well-loved on the journey that the binding is now looking quite the worse for wear. She also loves to roll this little blue and red soccer ball we got her to accompany all our World Cup watching. And for her birthday, she got a little block tower that she's really been enjoying.Natalie also loves "found toys", like the ring of thread spools my grandmother made for her.But Natalie's even less picky than that - a tag, a loose thread, a zipper, a tiny hole in a bedspread - these are a few of her favorite things.However, when we have to take something away from her or transition to another activity, she's getting harder and harder to distract. She'll look for the missing object, sometimes while screaming and writhing her body about in our arms. I wouldn't call these full-fledged temper tantrums or anything, but she's definitely ticked, and she wants us to know. Her lung capacity is also, uh, improving.

She remains a great eater. I know we may have a picky phase later, so my goal right now is just to expose her to as many tastes as possible so that on the other side of the picky phase, she'll be a person who likes lots of different flavors and fruits and veggies. That said, Natalie eats cheese, eggs, nut butters, beans, fish, bread, melon, Cheerios (of course!), cucumber, yogurt, peas, etc. on a regular basis (plus jarred food). She'll even eat hummus. And in San Diego we gave her some roasted red pepper hummus. She didn't love it, but she didn't reject it, either.She's also - most days - a decent sleeper. I don't wish to tempt fate, so we'll just leave things there.

Her hair is getting longer, and is really fine and soft and downy. For now, we just brush it to the side. I'm not ready to cut it.

She's almost outgrown both her baby bathtub and her infant car seat. I predict we'll transition to the bigger models of each in the fall.

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

The rest of San Diego

While the birthday party was certainly our big event, we had lots of fun the rest of the time we were in San Diego, too!

Since Natalie was still on a modified version of Texas time, we were subject to 5:30am wake-up calls (extra jarring when the baby is in the pack n' play at the foot of your bed!). However, this turned out to be lovely timing for some nice morning beach walks (bonus: no parking stress when you arrive at the beach before 7am!).On one of our trips to the beach, we stopped at the playground and put Natalie on the swings. She LOVED the swing!Here's a little video:


We also had some nice hang-out time in the big living room.Daddy demonstrated how the vuvuzela works:
We didn't really do birthday presents this year, but Mike and I did buy the girl a little float for the pool.And then we hit the pool!Natalie also got to pet my grandmother's cat / kitty cat / keyh-kah (possibly Natalie's first word, but the jury is definitely still out - it might have been more a case of us feeling excited).Here's a video. The kitteh kah's love, alas, was not mutual.


We also got some good play time with Oma.On Natalie's real birthday, we had a nice family lunch.For those who want to know what it looks like when you give a one year-old tuna, bulgur, and milk (not for the faint of heart!):


We didn't have any cake, but we did have a nice strawberry-raspberry-rhubarb galette with cornmeal crust.Also, on the topic of food, Mike and I were able to slip out to some very delicious sushi:It was a fun time, but everyone needed a rest now and then.

Monday, July 26, 2010

One year old!

I've been a bit delayed in getting this post up, but I think you'll forgive me once I tell you all about Natalie's first birthday party!

Also, can you believe we've gone from this:To this:Crazy, right? I mean, of course, totally expected and normal and lucky, but, still, wow, you know?

So we went to San Diego for Natalie's birthday - we had a four generation birthday celebration, which was really nice. My mom and I (but mostly my mom, let's be honest here!) organized a birthday party in a park near my old high school. We were lucky in that it turned out to be a beautiful day, perfect for flying kites, playing croquet, vegging on the blanket in the shade - all my favorite party activities! We were also lucky enough to be joined by some of our great San Diego friends and some visiting family, so it truly felt like a fest (but not a hyped, commercialized one - instead of gift bags, we gave colored frisbees, etc.).And, yes, there was cake:And Natalie enjoyed it very much, thank you!(major thanks go to my friend Alex - a super-experienced dad - who jumped right in and cleaned Natalie up - boy, did we luck out!)

For people who can't get enough cake, here are some videos:




(Separate posts coming covering the rest of San Diego and Natalie at 12 months [no sign giving her age in months, alas, but I think we all get the idea]).